ABBY WAMBACH

Abby Wambach played her final game with the U.S. women’s national soccer team on December 16, 2015. It was blustery in New Orleans that day, though she and her teammates were sheltered inside the city’s Superdome. By this point, after 14 years with the team, she’d scored more goals than any other soccer player in international history, male or female. The U.S. team hadn’t lost a game on home soil in over a decade. For Wambach’s last hurrah, they assumed they’d win again, against China’s national team. Insatiable scorer that she is, Wambach tried a few times to connect ball with net. But it was China’s Wang Shuang who scored the game’s single goal.

The loss seemed almost fitting, however. Wambach has two Olympic gold medals and a World Cup championship to her name, but she has long treated failure as fuel. She still talks about an anguished loss at a high school championship as if it opened her up to her future. “I’ve been trying to prove myself ever since,” she told USA Today a few years ago. “There’s going to be things that go wrong. It’s always about how you handle them.”

After the game with China, Wambach returned to the field, microphone in hand, to address a crowd that included eager young girls with glittery signs that said things like “Thank You Abby” or “My Hero.” She fought back tears as she spoke, in her typically candid way, before dropping the mic on the AstroTurf and turning into the arms of her teammates.

No one would have faulted Wambach for disappearing from the public eye after that. She’d been playing professionally for 15 years and deserved some time to regroup. But in the months since winning the World Cup in summer 2015, she has been taking every chance to speak out about gender disparities, finding her voice as if spurred on by newly discovered fervor.

“Mostly, I’m angry at myself,” Wambach explains, talking by phone from her home in Portland, Oregon. She has just returned from speaking about income inequality at the U.N. headquarters in New York. Soon, she’ll be lecturing at a number of universities, as part of a speaking tour that came together almost organically. “When you’re inside of something, you don’t see what it’s like until you’re outside of it …”

When she started planning her retirement, she realized she would have to create her own 401K and probably launch a second career to support her family. Male players, even those with résumés that pale in comparison, face no such concerns.

“These guys make hand over fist what we make,” she says. “I think I was trying to fool myself into thinking I wasn’t being mistreated. I should have spoken up. Maybe I was scared. Since retiring, I don’t have that fear.

Wambach, born in 1980, is the youngest of seven siblings and grew up in what she calls a “team environment.” As a 5-year-old, she scored 27 goals in three consecutive games. Her mom put her on an all-boys team when she was 9, to challenge her. Wambach’s coach at the University of Florida, Gainesville, Becky Burleigh, would boast that Wambach didn’t play like a girl, knowing even as she said it that it was both a compliment and a quandary—a reminder of how stigmatized “playing like a girl” still was.

Wambach joined the U.S. women’s team in 2001, the year she turned 21. Her glory moments abound: the time she headed a ball into the net to beat Brazil during the 2011 World Cup; the time she had a gash across her forehead stapled shut fieldside so she could keep playing. But in the lead-up to the 2015 World Cup, she wanted to transition into a supporting role, let her younger teammates take the limelight. She’d just married her partner, Sarah Huffman, and had started thinking about her future. She knew 2015 would probably be her last season. “I wanted to completely accept a selfless role,” she says. “It seems frivolous to do things like pick up cones, but in life these small little things matter.”

Almost paradoxically, Wambach’s candor doubles as a form of modesty—a commitment to honesty over showmanship. Even when she says she wants to change the world, it’s as if she’s saying it because it’s the obvious task: “All of us—women, men, transgendered people—we have certain proscribed paths, social pressures.” If no one talks about the inequality such paths and pressures breed, nothing changes.

On April 2, 2016, Wambach was arrested for driving under the influence while heading home from a dinner in Portland—an unexpected interruption to the momentum she had been building since her retirement. She posted on Facebook the next day: “Those that know me, know that I have always demanded excellence from myself. I have let myself and others down. […] This is all on me.”

The post racked up 7,500 comments, some saying how they respected her accountability, some telling stories of their own encounters with drunk driving or drunk drivers. One high school student commented, “You made a mistake. That will not change how I or my teammates look up to you.” The overwhelming message was one of support: Nobody thought she was perfect; she is a hero nonetheless.

Three weeks after her arrest, Wambach headed to Silicon Valley to give a keynote lecture on workplace equality at the Watermark Conference for Women. “I want to be the same person in whatever room I’m in,” she says on the phone, explaining that she didn’t really have to adjust her approach when addressing policymakers and business people. “It’s not really that hard to be authentic. You say what you mean, and go after what you want.”

 

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FRANCESCO CARROZZINI

For work you travel to so many amazing locations, however where is your perfect place to vacation?
Italy. I go to Portofino at least once a year.

What’s your favorite way and place to spend a free day?
It depends a lot on where I am; it can be in a vintage clothing store, a bookstore, on a beach, or writing at home.

What do you always have in your suitcase/travel with?
I always keep a small camera with me.

 

 

 

What is your favorite hotel(s) why?
Splendido in Portofino, Chiltern Firehouse in London, the La Reserve in Paris, the Umaid Bhawan in Jodhpur.  Each, in a different way, express luxury while making one feel at home.

NYC has so many amazing restaurants ­ but where do you find yourself eating most often? In LA? IN Milan?
I love Giorgio Baldi in Los Angeles, Asenebo in Los Angeles, Bar Pitti in New York, Gaicomo in Milan, Dal Bologonese in Rome, and L’amis Louis in Paris.

How is drinking a coffee different in LA than in NYC than in Milan?
It’s very different, despite how cliche that might sound – in my opinion, coffee in Italy is the best.  I think it’s in the water.  I feel the same about the bread!

 

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Where is your favorite city to get lost in?
Probably Istanbul.  I don’t know it as well as other cities, but every time I go it feels different.  It’s a very dynamic place.

What is your favorite store to shop in the world?
I don’t shop in stores very often.  I like to go to specialty stores, or markets.

What do you do for exercise?
I go to the gym as often as I can.  I’ve been boxing for many years.

 

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Recommended reading?
‘One, No One, and a Hundred Thousand’ by Pirandello

What are your favorite films?
This is a hard question for me – I like so many movies it’s almost too hard to say.  I find myself watching again and again ‘8 1/2’, ‘Pulp Fiction’, ‘Rosemary’s Baby’, and ‘The Shining.’

What is your favorite time of the day?
Night.

What does your day to day uniform look like?
There’s no uniform; it varies so much from one day to the next.  Sneakers and jeans one day, a double breasted suit the next.

What should every man have in his wardrobe?
Some great shoes, some nice denim, and one favorite suit.

What is your ultimate indulgence?
Cars!

 

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LARS ULRICH

JUSTIN O’SHEA: All right, Mr. Ulrich. Very excited to have you here.

LARS ULRICH: Thank you.

JO: First of all, I have to ask … 10th Metallica album is due this year?

LU: Yes, it is.

JO: Can you give us some insight about how it’s going to be, what it’s going to sound like?

LU: I don’t know if I have that kind of perspective yet, but I can tell you that it’s coming. Hopefully it’ll be out in the fall, and it definitely sounds like Metallica. It’s probably a little less frenetic than the last record. The last one Rick Rubin really encouraged us to for the first time be inspired by our past. It was the first time we sort of looked in the rearview mirror. This time around it’s a little bit of a different thing. We’re not working with Rick, we’re working with the engineer from the last record, who’s producing, Greg Fidelman. So there’s some of the same production elements at play, but we’re expanding a little bit on the sonics. It’s probably a bit more of a diverse record than the last one. It’s exciting, but I don’t have quite the perspective yet.

JO: Death Magnetic came out in 2008, so the gap between then and now is the longest in the band’s history. Has that hiatus given you a different perspective about how you approached this album? Has it been helpful to take a break?

LU: It’s funny you say that because when I think of the last six or eight years, the word “hiatus” is not that applicable in my view of it. Metallica’s busier than Metallica’s ever been. But we also have a different set of balances now in our lives, which is vital to keeping the band healthy. We prioritize our families and our kids. When we tour, we tour in two-week increments and we go home every two weeks. We found a new model for us, but we play probably two to three dozen gigs a year even in off years just to kind of keep the momentum going and keep ourselves connected and invested in the band.

I think what’s happened is our families and our domestic responsibilities are so important to us now, so we just have a new model. We’re sort of constantly doing something but never to the point of the needle going in the red, but Metallica really hasn’t sort of shut down since around 2005, and it’s a model that works for us. We never work at 110 percent to the point where we drive ourselves nuts, but are sort of constantly working at two-thirds, you know—when we make the record we’re writing and we’re recording, but we’re doing it incrementally. There’s always stuff going on. It’s the way we like it. It keeps us engaged.

 

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JO: The band’s been together for 35 years now. From when you started to now, have the dynamics of the band and members changed much?

LU: It’s been surprisingly good. A few bumps in the road here and there, you know, which was sort of 2001, 2002. That also was documented for that movie [Some Kind of Monster], so that’s been well talked about. But compared to a lot of our peers, it’s gone surprisingly well.

When we started the band I was literally 17, James was 18, and that’s young. We were green and full of spunk and ready to go. You never slow down long enough to check in with anybody or say “How’s everybody doing?” There’s such a gang mentality. I mean you just do everything together. Play together, live together, travel together, sleep together. You’re constantly partying. You’re just glued to each other for those years.

And then in our case we were fortunate enough to get a little success, and all of a sudden your manager sits there and goes, “You have enough money to buy a house,” so you buy a house. I remember for a couple of years I’d go to the furniture store and I’d like a couch and then I found myself going, “I wonder what James would think of that couch?” There’s sort of like a weird severing of the limbs—all of a sudden you’re sitting there like, “Fuck, I’m actually doing this shit on my own?” And that was a little bit of a weird transition. You’re just so attached to each other for those few years, but we managed that well enough. You can’t do 35 years without having time periods in your life where it all goes a little astray, but nobody’s lost the plot, nobody’s gone off the deep end, nobody went missing.

We always cared enough about the collective to prioritize the group more than our individual needs. And probably more important is that the way it all lined up, we all ended up having kids around the same time; between the four of us we have 10 kids. And especially with James, we had our first kid the same summer, so that gave us this whole other thing to kind of share together. I have three kids, he’s got three kids. It kind of happened at the same time, and it’s kind of expanded our relationship because it’s given us so much more to share.

JO: Would you say you’re the most vocal member of the band? You’re quoted probably the most of any of the band members.

LU: It’s probably by default more than anything, especially in the beginning. I don’t come from a particularly turbulent childhood. I don’t come from a broken home. My dad was a tennis player, a musician, a critic, and my mom was fairly normal. You know, I mean there’s not much to rebel against. I grew up around jazz musicians and sort of bohemian Western European culture, so I was always fairly comfortable with myself, fairly comfortable being around other people.

When James and I met each other, he’d had a pretty rough couple of years. His mom had just passed and he was not super comfortable with his surroundings, so when the two of us were together, it was fine, but when the two of us were in a room full of other people, I was kind of the more outwardly one and I ended up doing most of the talking. It wasn’t part of a plan; I just ended up doing the talking because he didn’t say anything. So when people asked us a question, I was like, “OK, well I guess I’m going to take this one.”

I was kind of the practical one. I mean he’s so insanely talented, and musical, and all this type of stuff, but I was the one that sat and copied the tapes and went to the post office and sent them out to people. I was the one that went to the print shop and copied our bio … whatever it was. So I was the one that ended up later speaking to the managers and speaking to the lawyers and kind of spreading the word, whatever the word was. But it’s always been kind of a group manifest. I guess by default really, I was the one who ended up doing most of the talking.

JO: You grew up in Copenhagen—what was it like growing up there?

LU: Well, I was born in 1963, so I grew up in Copenhagen in the ’60s and ’70s. Denmark is a small country, 5 million people, and most of them know each other very well. There was lots of music around. In my family there was music and actors. It was a very culturally rich kind of childhood. Very safe, insulated, comfortable upbringing. I played tennis, and music was kind of the escape from tennis. Music was kind of my fun; tennis was the serious thing. I was going to be a tennis player. But I started going to concerts when I was really young. I went to see Deep Purple when I was 9 years old, and the subsequent year I saw Slade and Sweet and Status Quo and Uriah Heep—and Deep Purple again. Kiss, you know—all these bands that would come through Denmark in the late ’70s. And then in 1980 I moved with my mom and dad to Newport Beach in Southern California to take this tennis thing to the next level.

JO: I’m just imagining you in little white shorts and polo.

LU: I had the white Sergio Tacchini with the red stripes. In Denmark I was considered a competitive tennis player in my age group, and when I came to Southern California, I wasn’t even one of the best tennis players in Newport Beach. I didn’t even make the high school tennis team, and that was really kind of a mindfuck. But it wasn’t a hard transition at 16 to jump into music full on. And I did that literally within two months. I was playing drums full-time and looking for people to start a band with.

JO: The band started in L.A. Did L.A. influence the sound of the band? You know, a lot of people like to regionalize a certain sound with a city. Was that something specific to do with L.A.?

LU: No, I would say it was probably more the opposite. I felt like I was in the wrong place at the right time. Everything that I was really into in the ’80 to ’82 period, all my attention was focused on England, the music that was coming out of England at the time: Motörhead, Iron Maiden, bands like Diamond Head, Saxon, Tygers of Pan Tang. All these bands that were sort of part of what was called the New Wave of British Heavy Metal, that was really what sort of inspired me to form a band. It was like hard rock but with a punk attitude, with punk aesthetics. And there was none of that going on in L.A. in 1980, ’81, ’82, not in the circles I was in. Most of that was hair metal and the Mötley Crües of the world—no disrespect. They were kind of ruling the roost. We were misfits, outcasts; we didn’t belong. We would play shows with some of these bands and people would look at us like, “Who the fuck are these guys and what are they doing here?” We would show up in our T-shirts and our jeans and our leather jackets and play kind of dirty, hard-rock, English-sounding stuff, and it didn’t really fit into the L.A. theme.

JO: Do you think that over the course of the 35 years the band has still kept that “fuck you” attitude?

LU: I’d like to think so, as much as it’s possible to keep that attitude when you sort of become successful. You know, success affords you freedoms—creative freedoms, financial freedoms, so on and so forth, so you can’t deny that element of it. I’m 52 sitting here. It’s been 35 years, so “fuck you” at 52 is a different “fuck you” at 18, or 25, or 35, or 45. So there’re different interpretations of the “fuck you” attitude as you go along. But I think that generally the very basic attitudes of why this band started are still as alive as you could expect it to be in a group of 51-, 52-year-old men, man-boys. It’s still hard for me to call myself a man, but I just did, so there you go.

JO: How about staying relevant but at the same time maintaining authenticity?

LU: We try to find the right balances, and we have people around us that help keep some of this in check, but I also feel like we’re incredibly impulsive and we still just throw ourselves into all these types of things. I don’t sit and overanalyze it. It’s like, “HUMANITY Magazine, they want to interview you, and Justin’s going to do it.” “Sounds great.” I don’t sit there with like 12 advisors and go, “Should I do this? Should I do that?” It’s just like, “That sounds like a fun afternoon in San Francisco.”

We kind of just throw ourselves into these things—we make a movie, we make a record with Lou Reed, we become record-store ambassadors, we play some shows, we write some songs. We do all of it, and we kind of just go about doing that in our own carefree little way and we don’t overthink it. There’s no master plan.

JO: When you look at the music industry now, obviously it’s changed a lot in the last 35 years. Do you feel that it’s lost a little bit of the vibrance?

LU: Obviously there are things going on in music that are interesting but for me, the type of things that I’m into creatively, like I actually spend more time in the art world, in the film world. I find that there’s still many things happening in both the film and the art world that seem to be kind of breaking down boundaries and doing things that are sort of original. It doesn’t mean I’m disrespecting music, I just feel that for the last 10 or 20 years it’s been the major source of creative inspiration for me.

Obviously the business is kind of at a little bit of a crossroads and has been for some time. The most exciting part of the music business or the music world at the moment is that for decades there was kind of a formula about how you were supposed to do things. So you make records this way, and you promote them this way, and you tour this way, and now it’s a little more like the Wild West.

And so we’re going to put a record out this year, and you could argue that there’s two creative processes now. There’s the creative process of making the record, writing the songs and getting all that done, and the creative process of figuring out what the fuck to do with this record and how you get it out to people. There’s no “one way.” You know, do you want to leak it on YouTube, do you want to give it away, do you want to sell it. Whichever version … there’s no right or wrong way, it’s only what works for you.

There’s no boundaries to any of it, and that’s kind of an exciting thing, a new thing. I mean you sit there and look at Kanye and you go it’s kind of weirdly interesting, the thing that he’s doing where he’s making his music available and then taking it down two weeks later and putting it back a month later in a newer version. That’s kind of crazy. It’s almost like a public work in progress. That’s kind of cool. I’m not saying that’s what we’re going to do, but I admire it.

JO: The Metallica legacy—is there anything left that you guys want to achieve? I mean you’ve basically achieved everything. You’re one of the most famous bands of all time. So is there anything left?

LU: I think it’s just staying together and keep doing it, and refusing to go away. We haven’t played Coachella yet, so put that on the list. I mean that’d be fun.

We played a show in India a few years ago, played some great shows for lots of kids from different Arabic countries, and seeing all of them together in front of a Metallica stage is beyond exciting. We’ve played in Malaysia, in Indonesia, and we penetrated China a few years ago. There’s new things happening that wasn’t possible five or 10 years ago.

The one that really works for us is just diversity. We’re in a place where we will play some stadiums and we’ll play some record stores and we’ll play a backyard barbecue, then we’ll go here and we’ll go over there and we’ll play the Antarctic, and we’ll write some songs and we’ll be in a movie and we’ll hang out with Lou Reed. It’s sort of all over the place, and that’s what’s really fun.

JO: And how important is giving back to the community—I know that you work with a health-care charity—and also giving back to the music community? Is this something very important to you guys?

LU: We do as much as we can. We’re sitting literally across the street from the Benioff Hospital. You know, Marc Benioff is a great man and has also become a friend. He is probably the most charitable man in the Greater Bay Area and leads a lot by example, and so being around him for the last five or 10 years has inspired us.

The hardest thing about these types of things is just finding the right balances between how vocal you are about it, because sometimes when you’re really vocal about it, there could be a fear of we’re just tooting our own horn. “Hey, look how cool we are, we do all this charitable stuff, and we should be patted on the back.” And then at the same time, the counterarguments that it’s good to do some of this in the public limelight because it hopefully will inspire other people to get their shit together and help out in the community as well.

JO: Well, Lars, you’re a great man. Thank you very much.

LU: Thank you. All right, I enjoyed talking to you.

JO: And my dad’s having a barbecue next weekend, so if you guys don’t mind dropping around to play, that would be great.

LU: Of course. We love backyard barbecues, especially on the weekends.

 

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HUMANITY N08 EXHIBITION IN TOKYO

HUMANITY is celebrating it’s eighth issue at the renowned Fireking Café in Japan with an exclusive photography exhibition. The Tokyo-based gem is located in the upscale neighborhood of Yoyogi Uehara, which is known for its booming culinary scene and charming atmosphere.

Visitors of the Café can see the most recent issue and it’s multiple covers, along with select issues from the archives, providing a unique experience that shows the evolution of HUMANITY Magazine to date.

From an exclusive piece on Yoko Ono, to article on Red Hot Chili Peppers frontman, Anthony Kiedis, and even an interview with Elmo, each page serves a purpose, and aims to send a special message. HUMANITY is humbled by the partnership with Fireking Café, and encourages Tokyo locals or visitors to stop by and see for themselves.

The Exhibition will run through June 26th, 2016.

 

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